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It’s Not Just The Coffee
Written by David Gittlin   
Friday, 01 April 2011 12:48

coffee_1.pngI’m trying to write my second novel.  It’s not easy, to say the least. I am confident, however, that this is a universal truth among authors attempting to write their first or seventy-first long piece of fiction or nonfiction, no matter how much their reasons may vary. My major roadblock seems to be an increasing disenchantment with sitting alone in a room for long periods of time.

Again, I suspect I am not alone in this.  I have recently resorted to bringing my laptop to a local Starbucks to resolve my isolation problem. The one I now regularly inhabit has been redesigned with long tables and stools — benches actually — that house enough electrical outlets to satisfy even the most ardent technology junkie. Droves of people come here, not just to chat and drink coffee, but to work. There are college students concentrating on actual homework assignments, business people, freelancers, and an assortment of others who, like myself, are engaged in productive endeavors despite the distractions of noisy conversation and piped-in music.

Why do we come here?

I can only guess for the others, but perhaps we all come here to overcome loneliness — to make some sort of connection. And I’m happy to report that my new strategy is paying off. I’m writing my novel on a regular basis, slowly but surely.

Why am I telling you this?

It’s not to plug Starbucks, or to update you on the progress of my latest novel. I just want to illustrate the link between my recent discovery about needing people around to work effectively and my teacher, Prem Rawat.

Many years ago, I began listening to Prem Rawat speak about an inner experience of peace and contentment. I was captivated by what he had to say.

I followed up on his promise to reveal a source of peace and contentment within myself. I practiced the techniques of what he calls Knowledge and, to make a long story short, I have not been disappointed. Well, perhaps that statement is not entirely true — though my disappointment was self-created. Soon after receiving Knowledge, I had the idea that I wouldn’t need anything else — including people. That idea turned out to be foolish and a bit funny, now that I look back on it. Needless to say, as time went on, I discovered that I do need other people. I need to connect with colleagues, and with friends and family — even on Facebook.

But I’ve also learned that I need something else — even more than I need other people. I need a connection with myself. That connection — not just friends, family, or my fellow coffee drinkers at Starbucks — is what will make my life complete.

Whether or not I finish my next novel.

Illustration by Sara Shaffer.

 

25 Comments

  1. comprendo perfectamente lo que cuentas, yo tambien experimente ese sentimiento de "no necesitar a nadie" ,creo que al descubrirnos a nosotros mismos y la experiencia tan nueva que trae el conocimiento, porque no se parece a nada ,necesitamos un tiempo para "incorporarla al disco duro"de nuestra vida, es tan potente que lo ocupa todo , no hay sitio para nada mas y no creo que eso sea malo, solo es una etapa , a mi me recuerda a esos primeros dias de una madre con su hijo recien nacido,el trascurrir del tiempo se hace distinto , los demas estan alrededor pero de alguna manera estan en un segundo plano, la prioridad es el vinculo que se esta creando,para la madre eso lo ocupa todo.un abrazo.
  2. Me llamo la atencion el articulo, porque sin haber aun obtenido las enseñanazas del maestro, se me hace casi imposible creer lo que el escritor pensaba...vivir sin conexiones humanas y sin la conexion consigo mismo... Todos estamos inter relacionados y nos necesitamos. saludos, desde Chile
  3. oye David, me gustó leer acerca de esa sensación de creer que no necesitas a nadie y después la vida se encarga de demostrarte en tu corazón, lo tanto que necesitas a todos, y tengo que decirte que a mi también me a ocurrido, todavía no he llegado al punto de poder trabajar en el ordenador con ruido alrededor, pero creo que voy para eso, y lo otro, es que me alegró mucho leerlo de alguien que es un escritor, yo me siento escritora, aunque hasta la fecha no me atreva a escribir nada, es otra barrera que aún no he atravezado, espero poder hacerlo y me ayuda mucho leer acerca de la experiencias de otros. Seguimos en contacto a travéz de esa maravillosa conección que es el conocimiento. Un abrazo. LUZ
  4. Siii, cuando estoy aqui, quiero estar alli y cuando estoy alli quiero estar en otro sitio. A mi tambien me pasa y es algo que tiene que tener solucion y la tiene, lo sé. Lo se porque a veces estoy aqui y querer estar alli o en otro sitio no importa porque me siento muy bien donde estoy. Aqui, donde estoy. Eso es lo genial de tener una conexion contigo mismo: Sentirte bien en cualquier lugar. Parece ser que los seres humanos estamos hechos de pura calidad, calidad extra. Y se puede sentir atraves de la conexion personal con tu interior. ¡que bueno!
  5. these last many years i have felt so isolated and hopelessly miserable that i have wanted life to end....now, in all this aloneness i just dont care anymore...the only thing that is keeping me here is the promise of maharajis knowledge.
  6. i enjoyed your story david it reminded me of 'The Writing Life', by Annie Dillard highly recommended along with 'Pilgrim at Tinker Creek' and 'An American Childhood' actually what often works for me is watching movies the structure of a movie is the same as that of a written story but hits it from a different angle you can see the triangle (plot character narrative) but in a different language (visual) lots to share on the journey and the story of being human is always an adventure
  7. Im a painter and musician. It's true-loneliness is a reminder to visit friends/family or those cherishing life. Depending on friends however can be distracting for creativity. I embrace solitude like never before. Solitude for me takes away lonliness because there is no fear of lonliness. Knowledge is Omnipotent in solitude or with others. In Knowledge... I have the experience of creativity within me and just need to actually start the process and enjoy the river of abundance. The challenge as always is to go within,,to do the practice... fullfillment allows us to take the wave of creativity. All thanks to Prem Rawat.
  8. I'm a writer and boy does your story resonate. I can't write at home. Starbucks doesn't solve my problem--I piddle around on the Internet! I found a library nearby that doesn't have WiFi. It's quiet and spacious, with a high ceiling and beautiful architectural detail to gaze at as I ponder my next word. I'm with other people who are also concentrating on their own work. It's like my practice of Knowledge--I need to leave distractions behind to connect with my inner core. Yet I also need to be around family and friends, to listen to Maharaji's advice, and to participate in his work. Life doesn't work for me unless I have all three.
  9. One thing I do rarely when I'm alone is read e-mail, yet this one is really interesting to me. I never thought of myself as a writer, but maybe I am one after all. I really relate to this mode. It is really the art of focus when you are next to a whirlwind or something intense like that and remaining clear amidst confusion. As a matter of fact I just gave up a care giving job with someone who was so scattered and unclear. I was so frustrated about the communication problem I just had to give it up. That was a month ago and I do not miss it at all. I also need solitude to come from my center or I cannot deal with anything in the world well. I am so glad about having knowledge to do that, it is more like a craving than a practice now. To turn your back on the light to go and serve means so much more than facing being in some black void like it was in the past.
  10. Good luck with your novel David! Good to hear someone else has come to that conclusion. At one point, silly me thought I would just head out to the himalayans and meditate and forget about the world and that way I would be happy. I have realized since that I will be much happier in being part of the world, being indulged in the struggle and helping people to awaken to small new realities like you are pointing out:) Rom
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